This is a popular question when it comes time to buy the engagement ring. Should you pick the ring for your girlfriend so she’s surprised? Or do you have her come with you so she can pick out exactly what she likes?
We’ve put together a list of pros and cons to help you decide.
Pros of bringing her:
Less stress and drama! Let’s face it; women are hard to shop for. If you bring her along, she will pick exactly what she likes which leaves no room for disappointment. Your girlfriend might have a specific style and color in mind that you’re not familiar with. You also won’t have to worry if the ring fits or not. It’s a great way to get your girlfriend the ring of her dreams without having additional stress.
Cons of bringing her:
If you bring your girlfriend along, it’s not a surprise anymore and loses some of the romance points. Also you might spend more than you budgeted for. This typically happens when the sales assistant tells your girlfriend “A beautiful ring for a beautiful girl,” as he talks her into wanting something more than you might have budgeted for.
As you can see, there’s a lot to think about when making this decision. If you’re set on keeping the tradition, our recommendation is to ask her what she likes. Take mental notes and consult with a jeweler who will educate you on cuts, carats, color and clarity.
You could also ask her mom or best friend to come with you. That way you can get hints at exactly what she likes while still keeping the romance. If you want to keep the proposal a surprise, buy our Ring Stash box so she can’t see the ring bulge on the day you propose!
